READ THIS IF YOU ARE IN YOUR 20s
God did not give me a better life...
A Chapter From My Book..
It's Okay Not to Have It All Figured Out
What's the beauty of life if we can predict everything? What makes God sovereign if we have the complete picture? What's the good in life without adventures, or what stories will we eventually tell?
Growing up, I had one deep-seated fear: "Will I ever make it in life?
Will I prosper?" I'm sure you're wondering, "Why all these thoughts?"
Well, I was born and raised in Mushin, Lagos—a very rural area.
The kind of place where you wake up to noise, or hear your neighbours fighting. When I stepped out of my house, I just knew the life around me wasn't the life I wanted. It was chaotic. No wonder my parents made sure we were always indoors.
But I feared what my 20s, 30s, or 40s would look like. Would it even make sense? And yes, it's making sense. God is making sense of it all. I'm doing great, pursuing my bold dreams, and achieving all I've ever dreamed of. It turned out great.
I look at my life back then, and now, it is not the same. I have grown and changed. God did not give me a better life; He changed it completely. Picture a butterfly, in the early stage, as a moth. It looks completely different when it develops wings. That is a perfect description of my life.
The truth is, I don't know what tomorrow will look like. It may be sunny or windy. But I know a God who has my future in His hands and who will not mismanage my life. If you're reading this, you're going to turn out well. Oh, I mean, you're going to turn out great. Life won't choke you in. I promise.
MY BIRTHDAY GIFT….
My birthday gift to you is my upcoming book. It is a small but powerful book. I wrote it for every young person navigating their twenties. It is a book you can finish in 15 minutes. Easy, clear, and straightforward.
I wrote “Read This If You Are in Your 20s” because I understand what it's like to be in your twenties, navigating a world that feels both exhilarating and utterly overwhelming. I, too, wondered if I'd ever truly 'make it' or find my purpose amidst the noise.
This book is my raw, relatable journey from Mushin, Lagos, through university, to building a life of purpose and pursuing bold dreams. It's more than a memoir; it's my heartfelt letter to you, sharing 12 essential truths I learned the hard way.
I wrote about the myth of overnight success, the struggle to define myself beyond my work, and the power of saying 'no.' I uncover the unexpected joy of missing out and how embracing authenticity, evolving without permission, and holding onto faith can transform uncertainty into unwavering strength.
Beyond the stories, this book offers practical, God-given wisdom to help you silence the noise, build resilience, and discover what truly matters. If you're ready to navigate this pivotal decade with clarity, confidence, and deep-seated peace, then this book is for you.
Life will not choke you in. You will turn out great. OKAY?
HOW CAN YOU GET THIS BOOK?
On the 20th of June, you'll be able to grab your copy in both physical and e-book formats on Amazon and at your favourite bookstores in Nigeria.
But that's not all. I am also planning book launches in both Nigeria and the UK.
Follow me on Instagram and subscribe to my email list to stay up-to-date with all the latest details on book launches and more exciting updates.
If you’d like to sponsor a few copies, do send me a DM or email
booktemiladesalami@gmail.com
HAPPY BIRTHDAY THEGLOBALTEMI…..




Happy birthday THEGLOBALTEMI.
I'm so proud of what Abba is doing through you and with you.
I pray you never lose your light and spark.
I love you so much ❤️
Happy birthday Temi!
I love you, love love your Instagram stories and how you shine light on the things that are most important to you.
Thank you for how effortlessly you pour out yourself.
Have a too good to be true year! ❤️